Barbara J. Kilmer, age 72, of Wallingford, PA passed away suddenly on September 3, 2018. A resident of Wallingford for the past 7 years, Barbara previously resided in the Chichester area. She retired from the Chichester School District after many years working in the cafeteria. At one time, she was an avid bowler and she enjoyed playing bingo. Barbara, known by her competitive nature enjoyed board games, watching game shows and even played video games. She will be sadly missed by her loving family. In addition to her parents, John and Esther Smith Palser, she is preceded in death by her husband, Richard J. Kilmer who passed away September, 2017 and a sister, Judy Cimabue. She is survived by her 4 children, Michelle (Richard) Haas, Richard J. (Kelly) Kilmer Jr., Kevin S. Kilmer and Brian D. (Chantel) Kilmer, a brother, Jack Palser and 8 grandchildren, Danny and David Clapp, Brian Kilmer Jr., Briella Kilmer, Kassidy, Emma and Jacob Stankiewicz and Kyle Haas. A visitation will be held on Friday, 9-10AM at the Pagano Funeral Home, 3711 Foulk Rd., Garnet Valley, PA followed by a Funeral Service at 10:00AM. Interment will remain private.