Obituary of Mary Schaefer

Mary "Betty" Schaefer, age 83, of Upper Chichester, PA, passed away on September 20, 2025, at Riddle Memorial Hospital. Born and raised in Chester, PA, Betty was the daughter of the late William and Mary Elizabeth (Bryan) Wright. She made her home in Chichester since 1976, after previously residing in Trainer, Pa. Betty graduated from Ridley Park High School and went on to earn an associates degree in Radiologic Technology from Crozer Chester Medical Center. Years later she earned a Bachlor's of Science degree from Neumann University. She began her career as an X-ray Technician before transitioning into roles as a retail manager, training director, and nurse recruiter. She later found her calling as the Director of Human Resources at HCA (Rockford Center), where she devoted 21 years of service before retiring. Outside of her professional life, Betty enjoyed gardening, designing floral arrangements, and most especially, time spent with her family and friends. She gave back to her community as Treasurer of the Aston and Chichester AARP chapters and through her volunteer work at St. Francis Hospital, where she faithfully brought Communion to patients. She attended daily mass when ever possible, and served as an Eucharist Minister as well as on numerours commitees at Holy Child Church. In addition to her parents, Betty was predeceased by her beloved husband, Theodore J. Schaefer Jr., and her sister, Patricia Moran. She is lovingly survived by her siblings, Bill (Toni) Wright and Jane (Ronald) Tollefson; her nieces and nephews, Andrea Jane Willis, Christopher Wright, Scott Tollefson, Suzanne Minch, Brian Tollefson, and Taylor Dorman; as well as 14 cherished great-nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to her Visitation on Monday, October 6, 2025, from 10:00–11:00 AM at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, 4701 Weldin Rd., Wilmington, DE, followed by her Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 AM. Interment will be held at Cathedral Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Betty's memory may be made to the St. Vincent de Paul Society. Online condolences may be shared at www.paganofuneralhome.com